<p>Many couples from <a href=”https://abc.com/shows/the-bachelor”><em>The Bachelor</em></a> franchise have gone on to live <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/the-bachelor-these-couples-still-together.html/”>happily ever after</a>. Well, maybe not many. Let’s say a few. Many did not. After leaving Juan Pablo Galavis’ season of <em>The Bachelor,</em> Andi Dorfman went on to become the Bachelorette. It looked as if she was headed toward a bright future with contestant Josh Murray when the two got engaged. Unfortunately, the couple didn’t last. </p>
<p>Since then, Dorfman has been outspoken about her time on the reality show.</p>
<h2 id=”h-andi-dorfman-wasn-t-happy-during-a-rose-ceremony-on-the-bachelor”>Andi Dorfman wasn’t happy during a rose ceremony on ‘The Bachelor’</h2>
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<p>Bachelor Nation met <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/the-bachelorette-what-obscenity-did-juan-pablo-whisper-in-clare-crawleys-ear.html/”>Galavis</a> during Desiree Hartsock’s season. The Venezuelan former professional soccer player was the franchise’s first Latino Bachelor<em>.</em> He may not have made it very far on<em> The Bachelorette</em>, but he was chosen to star in his own season because the audience loved him.</p>
<p>Dorfman was one of Galavis’ most promising options but looking back, she did not enjoy many aspects of finding love on television. </p>
<p>In her book <a href=”https://www.amazon.com/s?k=andi+dorfman+book&adgrpid=1338106221152663&hvadid=83631877547699&hvbmt=be&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=58294&hvnetw=o&hvqmt=e&hvtargid=kwd-83631993805356%3Aloc-190&hydadcr=22096_13324428&tag=mh0b-20&ref=pd_sl_6451c4arkn_e”><em>It’s Not Okay</em></a>, she explained, “It’s freezing cold, everyone is cold and nervous standing on these risers, and you could hear the teeth chattering and the deep breaths. And I watch Juan Pablo come in with a stack of roses, and I’m thinking, ‘This is the stupidest thing I’ve ever been a part of. I’m standing here cold, my feet hurt, and I’m waiting for a dude I don’t know to give me a rose.’”</p>
<p>Who could blame her?</p>
<h2 id=”h-she-starred-in-her-own-season-of-the-bachelorette”>She starred in her own season of ‘The Bachelorette’</h2>
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<p>Dorfman didn’t find love with Pablo. She did make it to the fantasy suites but left on her own after their overnight date. </p>
<p>Dorfman accused <em>The Bachelor</em> of calling her a “default” as well as saying other offensive things. The audience loved that she stood up for herself so she was soon dating 25 men as the next <em>Bachelorette</em>.</p>
<p>In the end, it came down to either <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/nick-viall-natalie-joy-engaged-after-over-2-years-together.html/”>Nick Viall</a> or former baseball player Josh Murray. She gave Murray her final rose and he proposed during the finale. Nine months later they were done. </p>
<p>While Dorfman said the split was mutual at the time, she told a different story in her book. She said that the two argued frequently and called their time together “the most volatile and f*****-up relationship of my life.”</p>
<p>It seemed Murray had a problem with the fact that his fiance spent the night with her runner-up Viall. </p>
<p>The Bachelorette said in her book, “That one sexual escapade would become a power play used by my fiancé to justify his mistrust in me. It would be an excuse to call me a whore. And it would eventually lead to the demise of my engagement.”</p>
<h2 id=”h-what-is-andi-dorfman-doing-now”>What is Andi Dorfman doing now?</h2>
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<p><a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/andi-dorfman-teases-new-boyfriend-on-instagram.html/”>Dorfman did find love</a> again. She got engaged to Blaine Hart in March 2022 and they are planning a wedding in Italy, which was where they met. </p>
<p>The couple bought a home together in Greenville, SC when Dorfman moved there from LA to be with her fiance. </p>
<p>“The life I want to live has and always will be the one rooted with love. And I have never been more sure that I have found that (thanks to you @blaineh86),” she posted on her <a href=”https://www.instagram.com/p/CfZbIqMOGNo/?hl=en”>Instagram</a>. <br><br>As for her wedding, there is one flower that guests will not see. “I never even liked roses, which is the funniest part,” she told <a href=”https://www.eonline.com/news/1368036/the-bachelorettes-andi-dorfman-shares-details-on-her-upcoming-italian-wedding”>ET</a>. “I’m one of those girls that I just like white, crisp flowers. I’ve never liked red roses. So no, there will definitely not be red roses there.”</p>