Benedict Cumberbatch reveals ‘selfish’ reason he won’t send kids to boarding school

Benedict Cumberbatch posing with a neutral expression at a BFI Film Festival event.
Benedict Cumberbatch has said he has no desire to send his kids to boarding school (Picture: Ian West/PA Wire)

Benedict Cumberbatch has explained why he doesn’t want his children to follow in his footsteps and attend boarding school.

The 49-year-old, who shares three sons with wife and theatre director Sophie Hunter, attended Harrow School in greater London, where the annual fees are in the thousands.

Yet he has no said that he does not want his sons Christopher, Hal and Finn to attend such a school, for fairly selfish reasons. 

‘Not unless they really want to, but no way,’ the actor said. 

‘And Sophie [feels] the same. Selfishly, I want them around – I still want to be there, in case the call comes, [when] the fall happens, I wanna be there,’ he added, according to the Daily Mail.

Yet Cumberbatch went on to praise his all boys boarding school – which counts Winston Churchill, James Blunt and Lord Byron in its illustrious alumni – and said it boasted ‘amazing facilities and very structured timetable’.

LONDON, ENGLAND - OCTOBER 11: Sophie Hunter and Benedict Cumberbatch attend the "The Thing With Feathers" screening during the 69th BFI London Film Festival at the BFI Southbank on October 11, 2025 in London, England. (Photo by Kate Green/Getty Images for BFI)
The 49-year-old shares three sons with Sophie Hunter (Picture: Kate Green/Getty Images for BFI)

The Sherlock star has previously admitted to feeling he let his parents down by going into acting after they ‘scrimped and saved’ as jobbing actors to send him to the pricey boarding school.

He said his parents – who knew how difficult making a living on acting could be – decided to give him a top education so he could become a doctor or a lawyer.

Speaking about his parents Wanda Ventham and dad Timothy Carlton, Cumberbatch told The Lady magazine: ‘They scrimped and saved to get their only son the very best education possible.

NEW YORK, NEW YORK - NOVEMBER 19: Sophie Hunter and Benedict Cumberbatch attend a "The Thing With Feathers" New York screening at The Crosby Hotel on November 19, 2025 in New York City. (Photo by Michael Loccisano/Getty Images)
Cumberbatch said his wife feels the same (Picture: Michael Loccisano/Getty Images)

‘And I took that education, threw it all in their face and became an actor anyway.’

He added: ‘To this day, one of the reasons I get out of bed in the morning is to make them proud of me.’

The actor previously opened up about his time at the all-boys private school he attended prior to Harrow, Brambletye School, revealing there was ‘experimentation’ among students

He said: ‘While there was experimentation, it had never occurred to me as “Oh, this is that.”

‘It was just boys and their penises, the same way with girls and vaginas and boobs. It wasn’t out of desire,’ he told Out magazine.

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