Gene Simmons apologises after ‘hurtful’ comments about Kiss bandmate’s death

American bass player and vocalist Gene Simmons (left) and guitarist Ace Frehley of the rock band Kiss perform on stage at the Chicago Stadium
Gene Simmons has apolgoised for his comments about Ace Frehley’s death (Picture: Paul Natkin/Getty Images)

Gene Simmons has apologised for claiming his bandmate Ace Frehley’s death was caused by ‘bad decisions.’

Ace Frehley, legendary KISS guitarist and co-founder, died in October at the age of 74.

The musician collapsed in his home in Morristown, New Jersey, falling down his stairs and hitting his head, which caused a brain bleed.

In a previous interview with New York Post, his bandmate Gene, 76, claimed that his friend’s death may have been down to ‘other issues’.

‘He refused [advice] from people that cared about him – including yours truly – to try to change his lifestyle. In and out of bad decisions,’ said the ageing rocker.

‘Falling down the stairs – I’m not a doctor – doesn’t kill you. There may have been other issues, and it breaks my heart.

‘The saddest thing – you reap what you shall sow, unfortunately,’ he added.

48th Kennedy Center Honors
Gene Simmons, Peter Criss, and Paul Stanley attended the 48th Kennedy Center Honors over the weekend (Picture: Paul Morigi/Getty Images)
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Frehley died days after a head injury (Picture: Gene Ambo/Mediapunch/Shutterstock)

Gene Simmons’ apology

But after backlash against his comments, Simmons took to X on Wednesday, writing: ‘On reflection, I was wrong for using the words I used. I humbly apologize. My hand to God I didn’t intend to hurt Ace or his legacy but upon rereading my words, I see how it hurt everyone. Again, I apologize. I’ve always loved Ace. Always.’

The official report in November classified Frehley’s death as accidental, explaining Frehley sustained a skull fracture at the back of his head, along with a subdural hematoma – a pool of blood between the brain and its outer protective layer – and a stroke.

He died just a few days after his fall on October 16.

epa12572920 Gene Simmons, rock star with the band Kiss, visits the White House Press Briefing Room in Washington, DC, USA, 05 December 2025. Simmons is in DC to receive the 48th Kennedy Center Honors on 05 December 2025. EPA/JIM LO SCALZO
Gene said Frehley’s death ‘breaks his heart’ (Picture: EPA)

In the controversial interview, Simmons reflected on Frehley’s funeral, saying that the open casket was ‘heartbreaking’.

‘It breaks my heart. Peter Criss, our founding drummer, Paul [Stanley] and myself went to the funeral, open casket.

‘It was just heartbreaking. Saddest of all perhaps, is that Ace just couldn’t stay alive long enough to sit there proudly at the Kennedy Centre and listen to – I can’t even tell you who’s going to come out … really impressive people, just to say how much KISS meant to them.

‘What can you say – sad,’ he concluded.

Over the weekend, KISS was recognised at the annual Kennedy Center Honors in Washington, D.C.

Speaking to People reporters on the red carpet, KISS co-founders Paul Stanley and Peter Criss said of their late band member: ‘We are here and simultaneously we can mourn his passing and celebrate our accomplishments. So, both things can be true at the same time.’

Stanley continued: ‘He’s here in spirit. He was looking very forward to being here and I feel he’s here.’

FILE - Ace Frehley participates in the BUILD Speaker Series to discuss his album "Spaceman" in New York on Oct. 16, 2018. (Photo by Evan Agostini/Invision/AP, File)
Frehley’s family has paid tribute to the star (Picture: Evan Agostini/Invision/AP, File)

Announcing his death, Frehley’s family said: ‘In his last moments, we were fortunate enough to have been able to surround him with loving, caring, peaceful words, thoughts, prayers and intentions as he left this earth.

‘We cherish all of his finest memories, his laughter, and celebrate his strengths and kindness that he bestowed upon others.’

The statement provided to Variety continued: ‘The magnitude of his passing is of epic proportions, and beyond comprehension. Reflecting on all of his incredible life achievements, Ace’s memory will continue to live on forever!’

LOS ANGELES - JANUARY 1975: Ace Frehley, Paul Stanley, Peter Criss, and Gene Simmons of the rock and roll band Kiss pose for a portrait session in January 1975 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Michael Ochs Archives/Getty Images)
The band had major hits for decades (Picture: Michael Ochs Archives/Getty Images)

In a joint statement, the remaining Kiss singers, Gene and Paul Stanley, shared: ‘We are devastated by the passing of Ace Frehley. He was an essential and irreplaceable rock soldier during some of the most formative foundational chapters of the band and its history. He is and will always be a part of KISS’s legacy.’

In his own social media post, Simmons shared, ‘no one can touch Ace’s legacy.’

‘I know he loved the fans. He told me many times. Sadder still, Ace didn’t live long enough to be honored at the Kennedy Ctr Honors event in Dec. Ace was the eternal rock soldier. Long may his legacy live on!’

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