Jennifer Lopez gave fans a surprisingly honest answer about marriage during her European concert tour, sharing her true thoughts after going through her fourth divorce from Ben Affleck. The 55-year-old singer’s quick response to a fan’s marriage proposal sign got people talking about love, moving on, and starting fresh after heartbreak.
While performing in Bilbao, Spain, on Tuesday, July 15, during her “Up All Night” tour, Lopez saw someone in the crowd holding a sign that said “J Lo, marry me?” Her answer was both humorous and revealed a lot about how she feels about marriage right now. “I think I’m done with that,” she told the crowd, adding cheekily, “I’ve tried that a few times.”
Fans caught the moment on camera, and it quickly went viral on social media as fans loved her honest and funny way of talking about her love life. The comment comes just months after she finalized her divorce from Affleck in January 2025, ending her most recent try at finding lasting love.
Lopez’s history with marriage has been in the spotlight throughout her career, starting with her marriage to actor Ojani Noa from 1997 to 1998. She later married dancer and choreographer Cris Judd in 2001, but their marriage only lasted until 2003. Her longest marriage was to fellow singer Marc Anthony, whom she married in 2004 and divorced in 2014. The couple has 17-year-old twins, Emme and Max, who remain an important part of Lopez’s life.
The singer also got engaged to former New York Yankees star Alex Rodriguez from 2019 to 2021, but they decided not to get married. Her reunion and marriage to Affleck in 2022 was akin to coming full circle, since they had been engaged before from 2002 to 2004.
Her New Song Shows Personal Growth
Lopez’s current tour has become a platform for both entertainment and emotional expression, particularly through the debut of her new song “Wreckage of You.” Music Times reported that she premiered this deeply personal track during the opening night of her European tour, describing it as something that “came to me when I was up all night one night.”
The song’s lyrics focus on themes of self-discovery and resilience, with Lopez singing about finding strength within herself rather than seeking validation through romantic relationships. She shared with the audience that the track explores the journey of finding yourself and healing after a breakup.
Lopez’s “Up All Night” tour is her first major concert series in six years, making it a significant comeback moment for the entertainer.
The European leg of the tour will continue through August 12, concluding with a performance in Sardinia, Italy, providing her with numerous opportunities to connect with international audiences while processing her recent life changes.
She’s Focusing on Her Career Now
Beyond her touring commitments, Lopez has several professional projects on the horizon. Among them is a starring role in the upcoming film “Kiss of the Spider Woman,” which critics expect to generate significant buzz during the forthcoming awards season.
She and Affleck are also handling the practical aspects of their recent divorce thoughtfully. People reported that they recently made the joint business decision to remove their shared Beverly Hills mansion from the market after it failed to find a buyer for over a year. A source explained: “While they’ve been hoping to sell the property, they’ve also been hesitant to take a big loss. They lowered the price to get more interest, and when this didn’t happen, they were advised to take it off the market.”
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