<p id=”par-1_50″><a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/tag/sean-diddy-combs/”>Sean Diddy Combs</a> might’ve shown different sides to his exes <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/kim-porter-said-sean-diddy-combs-relationship-jennifer-lopez-real.html/”>Jennifer Lopez and the late Kim Porter</a>. Both have often described dating the controversial music mogul as a chaotic and sometimes even traumatic experience. However, according to a close associate of Diddy’s, that didn’t mean he treated his exes equally.</p>
<h2 class=”wp-block-heading” id=”h-sean-diddy-combs-behaved-himself-more-around-jennifer-lopez-according-to-source”>Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs behaved himself more around Jennifer Lopez according to source</h2>
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<p id=”par-2_80″>Porter and Lopez both had similar experiences dealing with Diddy up to a point. Diddy’s antics left both ladies stressed to the <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/jennifer-lopez-shared-knew-sean-diddy-combs-unfaithful.html/”>point of fury and tears</a>. Things got even more volatile for the parties involved when they found themselves in a love triangle. Despite Diddy’s attention being on Lopez at the time, Porter claimed he still tried to maintain contact with her. Porter even famously asserted that she <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/kim-porter-threw-television-sean-p-diddy-combs-breakup.html/”>threw a television at Diddy</a> because of his affair with Lopez.</p>
<p id=”par-3_11″>“It was a small one,” Porter told <a href=”https://www.essence.com/news/no-ordinary-love-sean-diddy-combs-and-ki/”>Essence</a> at the time.</p>
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<p id=”par-4_78″>Although there were similarities in their relationships, Diddy treated them with completely different levels of respect according to Gene Deal. Deal was Diddy’s former bodyguard, and claimed to be a witness to some of the rapper’s most scandalous moments. This meant that Dean allegedly saw firsthand how Diddy would lose his temper around Porter. He didn’t see the music mogul break her nose like some claimed he did, but Deal claimed he saw Diddy get physical with her.</p>
<p id=”par-5_23″>“I’ve never seen Puff put his hands on Kim like that other than snatching her and grabbing her,” Deal told <em><a href=”https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EvSdVDCxvoM&ab_channel=CamCaponeNews”>Cam Capone News</a></em>.</p>
<p id=”par-6_52″>Deal also claimed that Diddy and Porter would playfight with pillows until Diddy got a little too rough with Porter. On the other hand, he didn’t do any of these activities with Lopez. Diddy wouldn’t even flirt with other women as long as Lopez was around, and seemed to maintain his tact.</p>
<p id=”par-7_24″>“He never tried to talk to her crazy or anything around people. I never even heard him raise his voice to her,” Deal said.</p>
<h2 class=”wp-block-heading” id=”h-no-one-on-jennifer-lopez-s-team-liked-sean-diddy-combs-according-to-source”>No one on Jennifer Lopez’s team liked Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs according to source</h2>
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<p id=”par-8_39″>Apart from Lopez’s own independence, Deal believed that if Diddy ever did treat her aggressively, Lopez most likely wouldn’t have kept it a secret. It helped that many in Lopez’s camp and family didn’t like Diddy to begin with.</p>
<p id=”par-9_67″>“He wasn’t gonna risk himself like that,” Deal told <em><a href=”https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0E4jlXav4L4&ab_channel=TheArtOfDialogue”>The Art of Dialogue</a> </em>about Diddy. “And plus, a lot of people didn’t like him. J.Lo’s mother didn’t like him, Benny Medina didn’t like him. So, now, the first, if he were to ever touch Ms. Lopez in any kind of aggressive way, she would’ve said something. Man, listen to me. The whole Bronx would’ve been on Puff.”</p>
<p id=”par-10_31″>“He didn’t do none of that old crazy stuff. That playfight. That beating them with pillows and all that other stuff like that, smothering them. Doing that childish s***,” Deal added.</p>
<p id=”par-11_30″>Additionally, Deal touched on <a href=”https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/elon-musk-attacks-jennifer-lopez-staying-silent-amid-sean-diddy-combs-allegations.html/”>why Lopez hasn’t spoken up</a> about Diddy’s scandals as of late. It all came down to Lopez simply not being aware of that side of him.</p>
<p id=”par-12_21″><strong>“</strong>I don’t think she has a story where Puff was trying to be abusive or was abusive to her,” he said.</p>