The Taylor Swift fans who aren’t happy about her engagement

Taylor Swift (R) and Travis Kelce engagement picture
Not all Swifties are happy with Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce’s engagement (Picture: Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce/ZUMA Press Wire/Shutterstock)

Swifties everywhere rejoiced when, out of the blue this week, Taylor Swift announced she was engaged to Travis Kelce.

After humble beginnings with a dream and a friendship bracelet, fans watched their romance blossom throughout the Eras Tour.

The floral engagement, echoing imagery used in her Lover era, was a welcome announcement for most who had anticipated wedding bells in the couple’s future.

However, as the rest of the world celebrated, one niche corner of the Swiftie fandom spiralled.

Known as ‘gaylors’, this faction of fans is dedicated to the conspiracy theory that Taylor, 35, is secretly queer and fake dating Travis, 35.

Despite her very public dating history and her own dismissals of any rumours, gaylors won’t be convinced otherwise.

Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce are engaged!
Some fans were convinced this relationship wasn’t real (Picture: Patrick Smith/Getty Images)
Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce announce engagement in a manicured garden in Lee's Summit, Missouri.
The pair have been dating for a year (Picture: Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce)

Taylor’s allyship, particularly during her Lover album, was taken as confirmation, and since then, the theory has grown like a weed within the fandom.

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Every lyric, image, and interview is dissected on a subreddit, with gaylors concluding she’s using forgotten queer signalling (that the songwriter is likely unaware of).

Speculating on anyone’s sexuality is inappropriate — celebrity or not — and can result in public outing, as we sadly saw with Heartstopper’s Kit Connor.

While the small faction usually gets ignored by other Swifties, their bizarre response to what is undeniably good news for Taylor has sparked ridicule online.

‘Wonder how all the gaylors are doing,’ wrote musicstruggles1 on X before following up with screenshots and adding ‘not well, it seems.’

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Taylor has made her allyship clear in the past (Picture: Kevin Mazur/Getty Images for iHeartMedia)

One screenshot quickly went viral, showing a Reddit user dramatically claiming this news was ‘worse than their granddad dying’.

Another said Taylor’s engagement dress was ‘giving cage or bars’, adding there was ‘zero per cent chance these visuals weren’t carefully planned out’.

This idea that the upcoming nuptials are a ‘jail’ for the Shake It Off hitmaker was repeated by other gaylors.

‘I’ve been sitting on this for a couple of hours now and I’m squarely in the performance art camp,’ shared someone else.

‘Not to be dramatic but my breathing has been near-panic attack levels for two hours,’ said another gaylor in a screeshot posted by evermorgs.

They continued: ‘I know all the logical reasons why this is fine, whether she’s bi and really loves him or is doing performance art or whatever. But ugh. It’s just knocked me a little today.’

Kateawaycar posted a screenshot with the caption ‘the gaylors are losing it’ which showed someone insisting the engagement ring wasn’t from Travis at all.

The post read: ‘I mean, TECHNICALLY…. she didn’t say SHE was getting married. Just that some gym teacher somewhere was marrying an English teacher.

‘For all we know, she just wanted an excuse to wear the actual wedding ring she got from her actual wife.’

Many have convinced themselves that this is a ‘lavender marriage’ constructed by their respective industries to protect their public personas.

‘How have gaylors come to the decision that travis is gay as well? 😭’ Passengernessa wrote on X.

BGUK_3320638 - Los Angeles, CA Taylor Swift unveils her new album as she make sher debut appearance on boyfriend Travis Kelce???s New Heights podcast. The pop star joined the Kansas City Chiefs tight end and his brother, Jason Kelce, during the latest episode of their podcast. ???This podcast has done a lot for me,??? Swift said. ???This podcast got me a boyfriend ever since Travis decided to use it as his personal dating app two years ago.??? Swift unveiled her new album The Life of a Showgirl sharing the front and back cover artwork and revealing there are 12 songs, which Travis called ???all bangers???. As for why she chose orange for her new era color, Swift said: ???I just like it. Energetically, it kind of feels how my life has felt. And this album is about what was going on behind the scenes in my life during this tour which was so exuberant and electric and vibrant.??? During the podcast Swift spoke about several different topics including her Eras Tour, her first date with Travis as well as his ???wildly romantic??? gestures. She recalled Travis going on New Heights to express his disappointment about not meeting her at Arrowhead Stadium during her Kansas City Eras Tour stop, telling Jason: ???It was such a wild romantic gesture to just be like: ???I want to date you!??? At first when I looked at it, I was like: ???This dude didn???t get a meet and greet and he???s making it everyone???s problem???. He didn???t even reach out to our management! When this podcast came out I was like: ???Did he ever reach out to be in the tents or did we know he was in the building???? He came with Patrick Mahomes and he thought that because he knows the elevator lady that he could just talk to her about getting backstage. That???s how it works in 1973! I???m not on social media, I???m genuinely terrified to open my DMs. If you have, like, 20 million unread DMs, you???re just like: ???Ahh!??? This was more like I was in an ???80s John Hughes movie and he was just standing outside of my window with a boombox just being like: ???I want to date you! Do you want to date me???? I was like: ???If this guy isn???t crazy, which is a big if, this is sort of what I???ve been writing songs about what I???ve been wanting to happen to me since I was a teenager.??? Taylor???s recollection made Travis blush as he added with a laugh: ???I was sitting there at the Eras Tour listening to all those songs thinking: ???This is what she wants me to do???.??? Taylor noted it was a ???wild??? move but it ???worked??? as Kelce replied: ???I???m the luckiest man in the world.??? *BACKGRID DOES NOT Pictured: Taylor Swift, Travis Kelce BACKGRID UK 13 AUGUST 2025 BYLINE MUST READ: New Heights/YouTube / BACKGRID *BACKGRID DOES NOT CLAIM ANY COPYRIGHT OR LICENSE IN THE ATTACHED MATERIAL. ANY DOWNLOADING FEES CHARGED BY BACKGRID ARE FOR BACKGRID'S SERVICES ONLY, AND DO NOT, NOR ARE THEY INTENDED TO, CONVEY TO THE USER ANY COPYRIGHT OR LICENSE IN THE MATERIAL. BY PUBLISHING THIS MATERIAL , THE USER EXPRESSLY AGREES TO INDEMNIFY AND TO HOLD BACKGRID HARMLESS FROM ANY CLAIMS, DEMANDS, OR CAUSES OF ACTION ARISING OUT OF OR CONNECTED IN ANY WAY WITH USER'S PUBLICATION OF THE MATERIAL* UK: +44 208 344 2007 / uksales@backgrid.com USA: +1 310 798 9111 / usasales@backgrid.com *Pictures Containing Children Please Pixelate Face Prior To Publication*
Gaylors are convinced the pair have no chemistry (Picture: New Heights/YouTube / BACKGRID)
KANSAS CITY, MISSOURI - JANUARY 26: Tight end Travis Kelce #87 of the Kansas City Chiefs celebrates with Taylor Swift after the AFC Championship football game against the Buffalo Bills, at GEHA Field at Arrowhead Stadium on January 26, 2025 in Kansas City, Missouri. (Photo by Brooke Sutton/Getty Images)
The rest of the fandom has ridiculed their response to the engagement (Picture: Brooke Sutton/Getty Images)

JMayer121 shared: ‘Travis being closeted is really funny because it’s totally unnecessary to the Gaylor theory. Taylor apparently can’t come out, so she gets a beard. And also he just happens to be gay too, I guess.’

The announcement even prompted some to accuse Taylor of ‘queer-baiting’, a term used when TV shows hint that a character is gay but never act upon it.

The main GaylorSwift subreddit has been locked down by admins after it was ‘infiltrated by hetlors’, a term for Swifties outside of the conspiracy.

For the most part, fans congratulated Taylor and Travis — including those who believe she is not straight but still interested in men.

This obsession, largely coming from women within the LGBTQ+ community, has not gone unnoticed by the So High School hitmaker.

FILE - Taylor Swift performs at Wembley Stadium as part of her Eras Tour June 21, 2024, in London. (Photo by Scott A Garfitt/Invision/AP, File)
Taylor has addressed the claims multiple times (Picture: Scott A Garfitt/Invision/AP, File)

In her 1989 (Taylor’s Version) prologue, she wrote: ‘I swore off dating and decided to focus only on myself, my music, my growth. And my female friendships.

‘If I only hung out with my female friends, people couldn’t sensationalise or sexualise that, right? I would learn later on, that people could and people would.’

In her podcast interview with Travis, she also added that Easter eggs are never about her personal life, a subtle push for fans of all types to stop analysing her lyrics in such obsessive depth.

Hopefully, for the Grammy winner’s sake, her engagement will finally put an end to this conspiracy theory and the tired speculation about her love life.

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