‘Visibility saves lives’: Big Brother fans emotional after Zelah opens up about transition

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Big Brother fans have praised a transgender contestant for opening up about his transition.

Despite entering the iconic house just three days ago, 25-year-old personal trainer Zelah has already managed to capture the hearts of British audiences.

After surviving a first-night shock elimination, which saw Conservative influencer Emily Hewertson voted out, Zelah has made an effort to ‘re-centre’ the narrative that is often perpetuated in the media about trans people.

In his introductory VT, he joked that he is ‘living proof that being transgender is not a choice’ because ‘why would I choose to go from the luxury that is the women’s toilets, to the horror that is the men’s?’

During Tuesday’s episode, when a number of the housemates enjoyed a dip in the hot tub, Zelah also opened up about feeling ‘self-conscious’ because of the visible scars on his chest in the Diary Room.

However, last night the 25-year-old took a step further by discussing his transition with Sam.

Editorial Use Only Mandatory Credit: Photo by Shutterstock for Big Brother (15511199d) Sam and Zelah 'Big Brother' TV show, Series 3, Episode 3, London, UK - 30 Sep 2025
Zelah opened up in a heartfelt conversation with Sam (Picture: Shutterstock for Big Brother)
ZELAH, 25 SOUTH LONDON, PERSONAL TRAINER image.png Why did you apply to be on this new series of Big Brother? I'm in this weird in-between where I've recently left the corporate world into having a bit of a looser schedule while I get qualified and build my business, so it felt like a ?why not? situation. I?m someone who doesn't have much of a social battery that runs out, so I'm very intrigued to see how far that goes in the house. Also, being trans, I think that a lot of the media narrative at the moment is taken out of our hands, and it will be nice to re-centre that and retake control. Shows like Big Brother show the normality of people - you can't get more personal than watching someone 24/7. What do you think you?ll bring to the House? I'm quite an energetic person. I think that's both a strength and a weakness. I might get a little bit unbearable without the gym - that's definitely my main coping mechanism for the chaotic-ness of the energy I have. I'm very social - I'm someone who takes on the role of the rounder-upper. I like to organise things, I like to do things in a group. I?d like to think that I'd contribute to group work in the house. And I'm really looking forward to the tasks, so I think I'd be someone who can throw themselves into that. What are you looking forward to the most about being a Housemate? I've set myself an aim to make at least one good friend in the House ? I?d love that. I think being able to connect with people will be something I?m quite intrigued by. It will be nice to be around a combination of different people that otherwise I wouldn't necessarily have met. And the tasks - I think the tasks could be quite fun. Do you have a strategy for making it to the final? No. I have a strategy for coping. I?m aware that when you?re in there you apparently forget about the cameras. I'm hoping I do because there's a lot of pressure to try and get things right. My main aim is to not hold my personality back out of fear of getting things wrong. I would like to win, I would like to get to the final, but I don?t really have a strategy on how to get there. What are you most likely to get nominated for? I can be quite opinionated but I'd like to think that wouldn't necessarily be a reason to nominate me. My strategy for those situations is to talk it out. I think also maybe food (or lack of) might be another reason for me being nominated. I can get very hangry. That might get to people. Tell us one thing about yourself you think will surprise people the most. That I am trans is usually quite surprising, because I have a combination of stereotypical masculine traits in the fact that I?m a PT and I like the gym. But I think the more surprising element is that there?s a level of femininity to me, and I think that is shown in the way that I connect with people and the way I carry myself. What would you do with the money if you won? I've had a few thoughts about this - I think the biggest thing would be that I?d contribute towards my business - training LGBT people and women. On a smaller note, I?d like to take my girlfriend on a really lovely holiday to say sorry for leaving her while I?m in the Big Brother House.
Zelah previously said that he is not here for the ‘laddish’ vibes (Picture: ITV)

Sitting on a bed together, Zelah began by saying he had chest surgery two years ago.

He then added: ‘My girlfriend and I were in a lesbian relationship for a while and that was her first ever relationship… I was a lesbian for eight years.

‘I went from a lesbian to a man, like, downgrade.’

Asked by Sam whether he always knew he was a man deep down, Zelah continued: ‘When I was six years old, if you looked at me then and look at me now, then you’d think I went from A to B.

‘I looked like a little version of me now. I had the skin fade and everything.’

After revealing that he was bullied in school, he said: ‘When I realised I was queer around 16 things started to get a bit better because I started to be a bit more masculine, went through my toxic masculinity phase.

‘Got a motorbike and my tattoos. Time went on, I just started to realise I don’t see myself getting old in this body no matter how masculine I am as a woman. I was never going to be that satisified.’

Asked what he thought about trans rights today, Zelah added: ‘It’s scary, it feels like progress is just back rolling.

The latest civilian series of Big Brother has returned to ITV (Picture: ITV)
SAM, 27 BRADFORD, ZUMBA INSTRUCTOR image.png Why did you apply to be on this new series of Big Brother? I've always wanted to do it; I love being around a lot of people and I've got to get out of the house and give my mum a break. What do you think you'll bring to the House? I think I'll bring a lot of fun to the house; I'll definitely bring a lot of energy. I want to get people doing Zumba and morning yoga every day. I hope we can have little sing-alongs too. I think I'll be good entertainment for all the housemates. I?m also a good listener; I cry at anything so I can empathise and think I?ll be a good friend to have in there. What are you looking forward to the most about being a Housemate? I'm looking forward to making new friends, hopefully learning some new life skills and seeing what things come out of this experience. Do you have a strategy for making it to the final? If I had a strategy, I would forget it halfway through, so I'm not going to give myself that task. I'm just going to be me and hope for the best. What are you most likely to get nominated for? Maybe talking too much. And apparently, I talk in my sleep now as well so that's not great. So probably talking too much or being a bit too emotional and maybe being too energetic sometimes. Tell us one thing about yourself you think will surprise people the most. I'm kind of what you see is what you get. But saying that, maybe everything's a surprise. I?m full of surprises. What would you do with the money if you won the money? I would go to Disneyland on holiday. I would get myself a gorgeous apartment and a fluffy cat. ENDS
Sam, who spoke with Zelah, made a very bold entrance (Picture: ITV)

‘The biggest issues with bathrooms were before I transitioned and I was a masculine woman. I once got dragged downstairs by two bouncers in a club and they said “do you think you’re funny?”

‘I had to lift up my shirt and show them my sports bra and be like “I’m a woman”.’

He finished off by saying: ‘It’s crazy how people living their lives bothers people so much because trans people and queer people are always painted by the media as the aggressor when the majority are just trying to get by.’

Commenting on the video, which was posted on Instagram by Big Brother, praised the housemate for being so open.

@maemione said: ‘I’m utterly fuming Zelah was given the evil eye, I just love these two so much, there already my winners.’

@icet21_ added: ‘This is amazing,’ while @adamoliver___ echoed: ‘I adore them both so much x’

@carolinemather__ also wrote: ‘Watching from Australia over here 🇦🇺 this is the most beautiful thing about watching Big Brother; so many people get to learn and see these kinds of conversations that they would never usually hear.’

Meanwhile, sophie__likes__books argued: ‘If you’re not LGBTQIA+, you will never understand how important seeing conversations like this on national television are. Visibility like this saves lives 🏳️‍⚧️🩷🏳️‍🌈.’

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