Big Brother fans praise Zelah’s reaction as he’s ‘outed’ as trans

ZELAH, 25 SOUTH LONDON, PERSONAL TRAINER image.png Why did you apply to be on this new series of Big Brother? I'm in this weird in-between where I've recently left the corporate world into having a bit of a looser schedule while I get qualified and build my business, so it felt like a ?why not? situation. I?m someone who doesn't have much of a social battery that runs out, so I'm very intrigued to see how far that goes in the house. Also, being trans, I think that a lot of the media narrative at the moment is taken out of our hands, and it will be nice to re-centre that and retake control. Shows like Big Brother show the normality of people - you can't get more personal than watching someone 24/7. What do you think you?ll bring to the House? I'm quite an energetic person. I think that's both a strength and a weakness. I might get a little bit unbearable without the gym - that's definitely my main coping mechanism for the chaotic-ness of the energy I have. I'm very social - I'm someone who takes on the role of the rounder-upper. I like to organise things, I like to do things in a group. I?d like to think that I'd contribute to group work in the house. And I'm really looking forward to the tasks, so I think I'd be someone who can throw themselves into that. What are you looking forward to the most about being a Housemate? I've set myself an aim to make at least one good friend in the House ? I?d love that. I think being able to connect with people will be something I?m quite intrigued by. It will be nice to be around a combination of different people that otherwise I wouldn't necessarily have met. And the tasks - I think the tasks could be quite fun. Do you have a strategy for making it to the final? No. I have a strategy for coping. I?m aware that when you?re in there you apparently forget about the cameras. I'm hoping I do because there's a lot of pressure to try and get things right. My main aim is to not hold my personality back out of fear of getting things wrong. I would like to win, I would like to get to the final, but I don?t really have a strategy on how to get there. What are you most likely to get nominated for? I can be quite opinionated but I'd like to think that wouldn't necessarily be a reason to nominate me. My strategy for those situations is to talk it out. I think also maybe food (or lack of) might be another reason for me being nominated. I can get very hangry. That might get to people. Tell us one thing about yourself you think will surprise people the most. That I am trans is usually quite surprising, because I have a combination of stereotypical masculine traits in the fact that I?m a PT and I like the gym. But I think the more surprising element is that there?s a level of femininity to me, and I think that is shown in the way that I connect with people and the way I carry myself. What would you do with the money if you won? I've had a few thoughts about this - I think the biggest thing would be that I?d contribute towards my business - training LGBT people and women. On a smaller note, I?d like to take my girlfriend on a really lovely holiday to say sorry for leaving her while I?m in the Big Brother House.
Personal Trainer Zelah was blindsided after being ‘outed’ as trans by a fellow contestant (Picture: ITV2)

Viewers have praised Big Brother star Zelah for his ‘kind’ and ‘calm’ reaction after he was accidentally ‘outed’ as trans in Sunday night’s episode of the show.

As the reality television show began, contestants were gathered for that night’s eviction, during which Gani became the second housemate to leave.

However, events were derailed when an over-excited Jenny described Zelah as ‘the transgender’ in front of the other housemates – some of whom were unaware that Zelah, 25, is a transgender man.

‘If I do go tonight, don’t forget about me,’ said Zelah as he addressed his housemates before the eviction – prompting a cry of ‘I’ll say, “where’s the transgender?”‘ from an oblivious Jenny.

As Zelah giggled awkwardly, some looked confused, while Charlotte took the opportunity to point out the blunder Jenny had just made.

And, in the calm after the storm (bye, Gani), Jenny took the moment to apologise to Zelah for her actions.

Zelah looks uncomfortable on Big Brother
Zelah was up for eviction (Picture: ITV2)
Big Brother fans praise Zelah's reaction as he's accidentally 'outed' as trans
Jenny was mortified to learn what she’d done (Picture: ITV2)

Taking a seat afterwards, Derry girl Jenny apologised, telling Zelah: ‘I’m really sorry. I did not mean to say it. I thought everyone knew.’

‘I do not think it came from a bad place,’ Zelah responded. ‘I had a feeling you didn’t know that people didn’t know.’

‘And therefore that’s fine,’ he continued.

Those not in the know included self-professed ‘old soul’ Cameron B, who could be heard to whisper ‘is he trans?’ as Jenny blurted out Zelah’s truth.

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Fans were charmed by Zelah’s understanding of the situation (Picture: Shutterstock)

Viewers of the show have taken to social media to praise Zelah’s handling of the situation.

‘Zelah handled that with such kindness and calmness, that’s why he’s my winner. It would’ve been SO easy to freak out then,’ wrote slinehan1 on X.

Nicolelouisee added: ‘huge respect to Zelah for being so kind and generous about it because he really didn’t have to be even though Jenny’s intentions were definitely not malicious.’

‘Zelah handed the situation so well such massive respect to him,’ said MitchellWebb85.

‘Bless him for how he handled being outed on eviction night he dealt with it wonderfully,’ agreed ManCalledDan.

‘Jenny outing zelah was not on my bingo card, I feel so bad for them both,’ said FelicityRepudia.

In his introductory VT, Zelah previously joked about his transition, saying: ‘Why would I choose to go from the luxury that is the women’s toilets, to the horror that is the men’s?’

And in last week’s episodes, he opened up to Sam, revealing that he had been in a ‘lesbian relationship’ with his girlfriend for a while

‘My girlfriend and I were in a lesbian relationship for a while and that was her first ever relationship… I was a lesbian for eight years,’ he said.

‘I went from a lesbian to a man, like, downgrade.’

Zelah opened up about his transition last week (Picture: ITV2)

When asked whether he always knew that he was a man, Zelah continued: ‘When I was six years old, if you looked at me then and look at me now, then you’d think I went from A to B.

‘When I realised I was queer around 16, things started to get a bit better because I started to be a bit more masculine, went through my toxic masculinity phase.

‘Got a motorbike and my tattoos. Time went on, I just started to realise I don’t see myself getting old in this body no matter how masculine I am as a woman. I was never going to be that satisified.’

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Asked what he thought about trans rights today, Zelah added: ‘It’s scary, it feels like progress is just back rolling.’

‘It’s crazy how people living their lives bothers people so much because trans people and queer people are always painted by the media as the aggressor when the majority are just trying to get by,’ he added.

Big Brother airs Sunday-Friday at 9pm on ITV2 and ITVX.

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