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Netflix CEO Reed Hastings has drawn leadership advice from some unexpected places. In particular, Hastings credits much of his successful leadership style to his marriage counselor.
“That marriage counselor turned out to be the best CEO coach I ever had,” Hastings told CNN on Thursday, saying that the advice he learned about total honesty helped his marriage and informed his approach to leadership at Netflix.
As a business leader, Hastings is anything but conventional. When Netflix’s pitch deck, or set of slides outlining the company’s core values, was released to the public in 2009, it sparked major controversy for its brutally honest approach to hiring and lack of firm employee policies.
But that same controversial approach to leadership also allowed Hastings to catapult his company from a scrappy subscription DVD startup to a media giant with a $220 billion market cap as of this writing. Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg said that the Netflix pitch deck “may well be the most important document to ever come out of Silicon Valley.”
So it’s worth taking note of how Hastings came to develop his unique approach to leadership. The Netflix CEO shared his greatest takeaways from his marriage counselor and personal relationships in his book released Tuesday, “No Rules Rules: Netflix and the Culture of Reinvention.”
Hastings’ biggest takeaway from marriage counseling, he wrote in the book, was learning how to apply honesty to every situation. And both at home and in the office, that approach paid off.
Here’s what the Netflix CEO learned from his marriage counselor about using honesty to become a more effective business leader.
Be radically honest in your relationships
Hastings said that honesty was one of the main things that helped to repair his relationship with his wife of twenty-nine years.
In his book, Hastings wrote that he had been telling his wife things like “family is the most important thing to me,” while working through the night and missing dinners at home.
“What the marriage counseling got me to see was that I was a systematic liar,” Hastings told CNN.
Hastings said that the marriage counseling allowed him to realize that his actions didn’t match his words. And that not only made him a liar, but it also damaged his marriage.
After realizing this through his marriage counseling, Hastings said that he “really became a fan of exploring conflict and being able to say exactly what we were thinking.”
He brought that same approach to the office shortly after.
Bring the honesty from your relationships to the office
Marriage counseling inspired Hastings to bring a similar culture of honest communication to the office. Hastings began not only providing honest feedback to his employees, but also set an example by encouraging employees to provide him with feedback.
“Getting feedback had an added benefit,” Hastings wrote. “It pushed performance to new levels.”
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Source:: Business Insider